What does maturity exactly mean?
It is only a question but have so many various answer. I think, every people
have their own definiton about maturity. But one thing that I know, maturity has nothing to do with age. We know every people getting older, but not all grown up. So, what is maturity? I have
my own definition about maturity. In my opinion, maturity comes from learning with
so many experiences, not just living. Maturity is about growning, not just
aging. Is about realizing that in this world there is so many thing that we do not
know.
“Experience is the best teacher”. I’m sure that everyone knows that quote. But not all people really mean it. Nowadays, not
so many people realize that everything happen for a reason. Many of us do not realize that problems can
make us better. When we have a problem,
we always complaining without really think what will we do to make it better. Although people around us say be patient, we always say
“my patience has run out”. But actually
patience has no end. Only a mature person who can be patient without the
others say to him to be patient. A mature person can take the credit from his
experience, whether it is good or bad experience.
Because he can take the credit from so many experiences, a mature one are grown up faster than other. Usually, a mature person often used as a place
to share from people around him. It proved that being a mature person can make
other people believe with us. By knowing
other people experiences, certainly can increase his knowledge. But, a mature
one does not arogant with his knowledge. Instead he feel that there is so many
thing that he does not know. He will always learn and learn again. If he get
failed, he will not give up easily. He
always try again without becoming bitter. A mature person knows there is a
rainbow after the rain. Because we live to live a life.
In short, maturity is not about
afraid of the rain, but it is about how we dancing in the rain. I will take one
of quotation about maturity. “To make mistakes is human, to stumble is
commonplace, to be able to laugh at yourself is maturity.”
Choirunnisa Muthi'ah
Selasa, 11 September 2012 18:37
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